I have absolutely, positively no desire whatsoever to have children.
People make other people think that having children is the only way you are successful, happy and purposeful in life, which is wrong.
To me, human beings aren't here to reproduce at will and the planet isn't equipped to hold an infinite amount of beings. This isn't relevant to the average person I suppose.
Which reminds me, why do we say "congratulations" to someone who is pregnant? Congratulations on having sex? I mean, if you're financially well off, loving and moral a small congrats might do, I guess, but not really. I find congratulations an odd thing to say. ANYONE can get pregnant (excluding those with medical issues), you just spread your legs.
The number reason I'm not having children is my freedom. I couldn't imagine not being able to get in my car in the evening to go for a drive and clear my head, because I had a child I had to either bring with me or leave with a babysitter.
If I had a desire to raise children I'd adopt or become a foster parent. Lots of kids born into horrible situations they do not deserve. I think the people that take kids in that aren't biologically theirs deserve the praise.
I'm not having kids because they're expensive, they're a ton of work and, honestly, I couldn't take the chance of that child being picked on the way I was throughout school.
Friday, July 23, 2010
Women Who Date Losers
Judge Judy has enough of these types of cases to keep her show on the air until the year 3000. Women who date absolute and utter losers.
Of course, they're not just on television, there are women in your life currently dating an absolute deadbeat.
I am extremely interested in the thought process of these women. Really, I'm highly curious to understand the thinking behind dating somebody (mostly men, though there are lesbian women who date lesbian losers) who treats you like absolute garbage.
Let's do examples. Many somebody can explain it to me.
A girl gets pregnant by a guy she barely knows, who does not have a job, who is all over the social networking sites looking for women, yet she says "Oh he's a really sweet guy." How can you fool yourself so well? I could tell from a mile a way what kind if loser he was, why can't you? She has the baby, and the guy won't even watch his own kid if she wants to go out for an hour. He still doesn't have a job and he confessed to her he cheated on her. A really sweet guy indeed. Yet this girl will call him a sweetheart "when he wants to be." Explain it to me, now.
How about the girl who has a boyfriend that never says he loves her, they live together and he never contributes a dime, he deals drugs, he's loud as hell at 11 at night when she wakes up at 6 for work, he hits on other girls, he can't hold a job, he gets drunk and destroys her property including her brand new car, he dropped out of high school and yet she continues to bend over backwards for him. I can't fathom it.
Explain the girl who meets a guy, knows him for less than three weeks and gives him 3000 dollars. She never sees her money again. This type of scenario happens constantly. I need an explanation for this phenomenon.
What about the man that on first sight can be seen as an alcoholic, lazy, unemployed, controlling loser. Yet a woman will stay with this type of man and end up stuck. She'll have kids, quit her job, wait hand and foot on this man (or else) and twenty years later she will realize she's miserable but has absolutely no way out. How can you do that to yourself, ladies?
Of course, they're not just on television, there are women in your life currently dating an absolute deadbeat.
I am extremely interested in the thought process of these women. Really, I'm highly curious to understand the thinking behind dating somebody (mostly men, though there are lesbian women who date lesbian losers) who treats you like absolute garbage.
Let's do examples. Many somebody can explain it to me.
A girl gets pregnant by a guy she barely knows, who does not have a job, who is all over the social networking sites looking for women, yet she says "Oh he's a really sweet guy." How can you fool yourself so well? I could tell from a mile a way what kind if loser he was, why can't you? She has the baby, and the guy won't even watch his own kid if she wants to go out for an hour. He still doesn't have a job and he confessed to her he cheated on her. A really sweet guy indeed. Yet this girl will call him a sweetheart "when he wants to be." Explain it to me, now.
How about the girl who has a boyfriend that never says he loves her, they live together and he never contributes a dime, he deals drugs, he's loud as hell at 11 at night when she wakes up at 6 for work, he hits on other girls, he can't hold a job, he gets drunk and destroys her property including her brand new car, he dropped out of high school and yet she continues to bend over backwards for him. I can't fathom it.
Explain the girl who meets a guy, knows him for less than three weeks and gives him 3000 dollars. She never sees her money again. This type of scenario happens constantly. I need an explanation for this phenomenon.
What about the man that on first sight can be seen as an alcoholic, lazy, unemployed, controlling loser. Yet a woman will stay with this type of man and end up stuck. She'll have kids, quit her job, wait hand and foot on this man (or else) and twenty years later she will realize she's miserable but has absolutely no way out. How can you do that to yourself, ladies?
Thursday, July 22, 2010
The 27 Year Old Virgin
The talk this morning on the radio inspired me to create this blog, as I need a place to rant and to rant at length.
This morning at approximately 5:46-5:50 a.m. I was tuned into a local morning show on the radio.
The topic at hand was a gorgeous, 27-year-old woman who was still a virgin.
The host's friend had a couple of dates on the weekend with this woman, who he said was "hot", but a virgin because she had not found the guy to give her virginity. The friend thought maybe she was psycho because of this, and asked the radio show's host to talk about it on the air to see what others thought, and of course the host agrees with his friend. The female co-host and the only owner of a brain on the show thought it was perfectly fine for the woman to be a virgin.
Men only care about sex. This guy was just upset he wasn't going to get into her pants without making a serious effort to get to know her. He probably thought she owed him sex and when she wasn't complying with his wishes, he got mad and decided she was a psycho.
A woman like her should be commended and applauded for not just spreading her legs to just anyone. Most of the time women feel pressured and ARE pressured to have sex with a man, as if it's their duty in life. I'd like to meet this woman, she's obviously smart, controlled, decent and intelligent.
The man she went out with is a pig who only cares about sex and is so overly concerned about getting in her pants that he's freaking out about her virginity instead of getting to know her dreams, hopes, aspirations, thoughts and feelings. He thinks she must be lying or crazy and no one wants to have sex with her.
No matter how they've been brainwashed by television, radio, movies, magazine, the internet and so on, women are under absolutely no obligation whatsoever to have sex with a man at any time, ever. EVER. They are also under absolutely no obligation to shave their legs (or anywhere for that matter), wear makeup, go tanning, wear revealing clothing, get their hair done, cook, clean and etc. Women everywhere need to realize this fact.
Many a time I've known a friend or two who went out with a man and since they didn't give up the sex, the men treated them like shit, ignored them, and basically just dropped them like a bad habit. Even if this woman is lying about her virginity, it's okay because that might be the only way she weeds out the disgusting men who only want to sleep with her.
This morning at approximately 5:46-5:50 a.m. I was tuned into a local morning show on the radio.
The topic at hand was a gorgeous, 27-year-old woman who was still a virgin.
The host's friend had a couple of dates on the weekend with this woman, who he said was "hot", but a virgin because she had not found the guy to give her virginity. The friend thought maybe she was psycho because of this, and asked the radio show's host to talk about it on the air to see what others thought, and of course the host agrees with his friend. The female co-host and the only owner of a brain on the show thought it was perfectly fine for the woman to be a virgin.
Men only care about sex. This guy was just upset he wasn't going to get into her pants without making a serious effort to get to know her. He probably thought she owed him sex and when she wasn't complying with his wishes, he got mad and decided she was a psycho.
A woman like her should be commended and applauded for not just spreading her legs to just anyone. Most of the time women feel pressured and ARE pressured to have sex with a man, as if it's their duty in life. I'd like to meet this woman, she's obviously smart, controlled, decent and intelligent.
The man she went out with is a pig who only cares about sex and is so overly concerned about getting in her pants that he's freaking out about her virginity instead of getting to know her dreams, hopes, aspirations, thoughts and feelings. He thinks she must be lying or crazy and no one wants to have sex with her.
No matter how they've been brainwashed by television, radio, movies, magazine, the internet and so on, women are under absolutely no obligation whatsoever to have sex with a man at any time, ever. EVER. They are also under absolutely no obligation to shave their legs (or anywhere for that matter), wear makeup, go tanning, wear revealing clothing, get their hair done, cook, clean and etc. Women everywhere need to realize this fact.
Many a time I've known a friend or two who went out with a man and since they didn't give up the sex, the men treated them like shit, ignored them, and basically just dropped them like a bad habit. Even if this woman is lying about her virginity, it's okay because that might be the only way she weeds out the disgusting men who only want to sleep with her.
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