Women Who Date Losers

Judge Judy has enough of these types of cases to keep her show on the air until the year 3000. Women who date absolute and utter losers.

Of course, they're not just on television, there are women in your life currently dating an absolute deadbeat.

I am extremely interested in the thought process of these women. Really, I'm highly curious to understand the thinking behind dating somebody (mostly men, though there are lesbian women who date lesbian losers) who treats you like absolute garbage.

Let's do examples. Many somebody can explain it to me.

A girl gets pregnant by a guy she barely knows, who does not have a job, who is all over the social networking sites looking for women, yet she says "Oh he's a really sweet guy." How can you fool yourself so well? I could tell from a mile a way what kind if loser he was, why can't you? She has the baby, and the guy won't even watch his own kid if she wants to go out for an hour. He still doesn't have a job and he confessed to her he cheated on her. A really sweet guy indeed. Yet this girl will call him a sweetheart "when he wants to be." Explain it to me, now.

How about the girl who has a boyfriend that never says he loves her, they live together and he never contributes a dime, he deals drugs, he's loud as hell at 11 at night when she wakes up at 6 for work, he hits on other girls, he can't hold a job, he gets drunk and destroys her property including her brand new car, he dropped out of high school and yet she continues to bend over backwards for him. I can't fathom it.

Explain the girl who meets a guy, knows him for less than three weeks and gives him 3000 dollars. She never sees her money again. This type of scenario happens constantly. I need an explanation for this phenomenon.

What about the man that on first sight can be seen as an alcoholic, lazy, unemployed, controlling loser. Yet a woman will stay with this type of man and end up stuck. She'll have kids, quit her job, wait hand and foot on this man (or else) and twenty years later she will realize she's miserable but has absolutely no way out. How can you do that to yourself, ladies?